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sometimes i feel like a pig. i feel like my man dosent love me and he is only dating me cuz he feels like playing me. his friends call me fat and i feel like he does nothing about it. i have an eating disorder and its hard to stop eating and its hard to start eating. and when i stop eating i feel better but then i called skinny and bones. and when i do eat they call me a pig and a cow. and my mom put me on a diet for 2 weeks where i didnt eat of drink anything but water and eat grass.
hi there thanks for reaching out to 2ndfloor. the name calling that you’re experiencing sounds very hurtful on top of already struggling with a disorder. first and foremost if you haven’t already, we suggest getting properly diagnosed by your physician and/or mental health provider. secondly, working with your healthcare providers to figure out a plan of action to get you on track. in the meantime you can check out this resource for more support regarding eating disorders https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/get-help/
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I'm really sorry to hear that you feel this way. It sounds really hard to feel like that about yourself. It’s not nice when people say mean things, and it makes it even worse when the person you care about doesn’t stand up for you. You deserve to feel loved and happy just the way you are!
Eating can be super confusing, and it’s okay to have trouble with it. Maybe it would help to talk to someone who can help, like a grown-up you trust or a counselor. They can help you feel better and figure things out together. Remember, you are not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to support you! Try to be kind to yourself, because you are special just the way you are.
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