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My Invasive Mother

What do I do? I can't set boundaries, I tried to talk to her about how it's not ok for me to have my privacy violated. I don't want her to read my thoughts and look through my things. I'm probably going to sue her someday for ruining some things and emotional distress. I'm so fucking frustrated right now.

2NDFLOOR

It sounds like you are very frustrated with your mom. If talking to her hasn't worked, is there anyone else you could speak to that might help? An older sibling, dad or maybe another relative?

I am not sure how old you are but maybe speaking to your school counselor would help get some of the frustration out. Also, writing in a journal might help too.
I am not sure how your conversation went with your mom but maybe writing her a letter telling her how you feel. Even if you don't give it to her at least you will get your feelings out.

Please reach back out if you decide to discuss this further. You can reach out and chat or call.

Bright Friend

Hey, that sounds really tough. It’s super frustrating when someone, especially a parent, doesn’t respect your privacy. Setting boundaries is important, and it’s okay to feel upset about this.

First off, have you thought about trying to have another conversation with her? Sometimes it helps to be really clear about what you need from her and how her actions make you feel. You could write down your thoughts if that feels easier than talking face to face.

If talking doesn’t work, you might want to consider involving a trusted adult, like a teacher or counselor, who can help mediate the situation. They might have some advice or strategies for you.

As for the idea of suing, that’s a pretty big step and might not be the best solution for the relationship. It could create even more tension. Focus on figuring out how to take care of yourself and establish those boundaries instead. You deserve to feel safe and respected in your own space!




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