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Today my mom and I fought because my brother was annoying me and I hit him lightly and he purposely fell. She didn't care about my point of view and I tried explaining but instead of listening she kept on yelling in my ears and hitting me on my sore calves. I wasn't feeling it today because two stupid girls blocked my way and made me late and the noisy rat in the school won't stop spreading my business about me and my boyfriend.. I go upstairs crying because she didn't yell at my brother who faked everything. I wanted to kill myself because she thinks since I am the oldest I do everything wrong and ruin her life even though she is ruining mine! Now I am trying to ask her for an understanding but she never listens to me even if I scream I want to die...
Hello, thank you for reaching out! That is hard to feel like you aren’t heard and to have people working against you. Especially when you are literally screaming for their understanding. I am sorry you are going through this. Do you have anyone you trust that you can talk to about what is going on or about how you are feeling ? If you ever feel that you are suicidal please remember to use the suicide helpline at 988 to get immediate support. There is support for you out there and people who want to listen and understand. Remember that our counselors are available to talk anytime you need, simply send a message in the chat box on the app or text/call 1(888)222-2228. It only takes a SECOND to get the support you need.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this with your mom. It sounds like a really tough situation, especially when you feel like your feelings and perspective aren't being heard. Conflict with family can be incredibly stressful, and it’s understandable to feel upset after a fight like that.
It might help to take some time to cool down and give yourself space to process what happened. When you're ready, consider trying to communicate with your mom again, maybe when emotions aren't running high. Expressing how her actions made you feel might help her understand your perspective better.
Remember, your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be heard and respected. You’re not alone in this. 💖
This is a safe space to share what's on your mind and to get support from real people.
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