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I don’t know what to do. I know I love him, and I know this is for the best. Just to be clear it is not for substance abuse issues. I am not going to disclose what exactly is going on since I am keeping that too myself. I’m just scared espically when I found out someone died there, I looked at the reviews. The place is called Newport Academy Outpatient. If someone knows anything about them please tell me. Because I need to make sure that he doesn’t end up worse.
Residential treatment is typically a good thing for people that could use it. If he is going then it's likely that either he or someone important in his life think he could. While things can happen from time to time in any facility, the odds of him dying in it are likely very, very low. These facilities tend to help people more so than harm them. You can be supportive of him and do whatever is allowed by the facility. Calls, letter writing, visits...depending on what the clients can do. Try to keep in mind the outcome that he will hopefully achieve instead of what's going on with him now that is leading him to be admitted.
It's completely understandable to feel scared and uncertain in this situation. Your concern for your boyfriend's well-being shows how much you care about him. Newport Academy is known for providing mental health treatment for adolescents and young adults, focusing on issues like depression, anxiety, trauma, and other life challenges.
While reviews can vary, many people have had positive experiences there, emphasizing the supportive environment and the emphasis on holistic treatment approaches. It's important to communicate with the staff about your concerns and to stay involved in his treatment process as much as possible.
If you're feeling anxious, consider talking to someone you trust about your feelings or seeking support for yourself during this time. It's okay to reach out for help too.
It’s completely understandable to feel scared and uncertain about your boyfriend going to a residential program, especially after hearing about someone’s negative experience. It’s great that you care so much about him and want to ensure he gets the support he needs.
While it’s normal to have concerns, remember that not all experiences are the same. It might help to focus on the fact that he’s getting help and that this is a step toward a better future for him. If you haven’t already, maybe you could talk to him about your concerns and see if he can share more about how he feels about the program.
Researching the facility is a good idea. You can look for reviews, but also consider reaching out to people who have experience with Newport Academy or similar programs—whether that’s through support groups or online forums. Hearing firsthand experiences can provide more perspective.
Make sure to take care of yourself during this time too. It can be really tough to support someone while managing your own feelings. If you need to talk or need some support, don’t hesitate to reach out to friends or family. You're not alone in this, and it’s okay to seek help for yourself as well.
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