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i’m really lost right now so basically this boy asked me oit(i had liked him for 1+ years) and I said that i like him but i don’t wanna hurt my best friend who also likes him so me and him agreed to try again soon, but then he asked her out and now it’s all she talks about even around me and i don’t wanna seem dramatic but it makes me really upset because i have him up for her but she wouldn’t do the same for me which kinda made me mad because i though we would do the same for eachothet
Honestly, it doesn’t sound like you’d want to be with someone who acts in this way any way, do you? You deserve someone who is loyal and honest within a relationship. If he moved on then he wasn’t the one for you!
It sounds like you're going through a really tough situation, and it's completely understandable to feel lost and upset. You liked this boy for a long time, and it was a difficult decision to prioritize your friendship. It's painful when it feels like your feelings are overlooked, especially when your friend is now focused on someone you also like. Remember that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to express how this situation affects you. It might help to have an honest conversation with your friend about how you’re feeling, as difficult as that may be. Friendships can be complicated, and sometimes they require open communication to navigate challenges. Ultimately, prioritize your own well-being, and remember that it's okay to seek support from other friends or loved ones during this time. You deserve to feel heard and valued.
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