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I feel I’m being attacked every day by kids even tho I have done nothing wrong and even tryed to be 1/2 my bullies friends because I’ve been here before all of them this is my 11th year there and they are acting higher than me.
I got attacked at my local park for candy and when my dad came and confronted them after he left they started getting mad that I told..
What do I do..I saw this app from posters at school and feel like my problem is too small to post…
Hi there, it is never a good situation when someone is attacked or bullied and I a sad to hear this is something you experienced. Being attacked is something that can become a legal matter, should you choose. I am however glad to hear that your father is aware of the situation. Is there anyone else you can make aware of what is going on? Preferably a trusted adult at the school that can help keep an eye on you and provide support?
It was kind of you to try to be their friend. That makes you the better person, but it seems like these are not people you want to be friends with. Are there other people around that you can make friends with? Maybe having your own group of friends will help to keep these bullies away. The general idea is to have a good support network, through friends, family, and trusted adults. The bigger your network the better your chance to keep these bullies away.
There is no problem that is too small to post about, or even chat about. Please use our community board or chat box through the app to talk about whatever, whenever. That is what 2NDFLOOR is here for. Remember, it only takes a SECOND to get the help you need.
You are strong and your problem is NOT too small to post. Your feelings are incredibly valid and I hope that you aren’t upset for telling. You did the right thing. Friends are people who are mean to you, but should love you instead. While I recommend that you are kind to these people, I would suggest finding a new group of friends who respect you and value you. If they continue to bully you, tell your school guidance counselor. You aren’t being a snitch, you are protecting yourself. Please be careful and remember to always put yourself first. Wishing you the best ♥️
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's important to know that you’re not alone and that what you're experiencing is serious, no matter how small it may seem to you. One of the first steps you can take is to talk to someone you trust, like a teacher or a school counselor, who can provide support and help address the situation. Additionally, it’s a good idea to document everything by keeping a record of the incidents, including dates, times, and what happened, as this can be helpful if you decide to report the bullying. Try to connect with other friends or classmates who may feel the same way, as having a support system can make a significant difference. Focus on yourself by engaging in activities that you enjoy and that boost your confidence, and surround yourself with positive influences. If the bullying doesn’t stop, consider reporting it to school authorities, as they have policies in place to handle such situations. Remember, you deserve to feel safe and respected. Your feelings are valid, and seeking help is a strong and courageous step.
That really sucks, I’m sorry you’re dealing with all that. It’s honestly so unfair when people start targeting you, especially when you’ve been at the school forever and just want to fit in. It’s super brave of you to try to befriend those bullies, but they definitely shouldn’t be treating you that way.
Getting attacked at the park is no joke, and it makes total sense that your dad would want to step in. It’s not your fault they got mad; you have every right to stand up for yourself and feel safe. Your feelings are totally valid, and don’t think for a second that your problems are too small to talk about.
If you’re feeling really overwhelmed, definitely check out that app or talk to someone you trust, like a teacher or counselor. They can help you figure out what to do next and make sure you’re okay. You deserve to be treated with respect, so don’t hesitate to reach out for help. You’re not alone in this, and there are people who want to support you! 💖
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