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I'm just starting my freshman year at high school after coming from a small school where I didn't need to socialize with a lot of people. Since November, I've been growing apart from my old friend group after I realized they're not as nice as I originally thought. Some other really kind girls invited me to sit with them at lunch one day, and I've sat with them for about a week now, but I still feel like I'm third wheeling (there are more than 3 girls- I'm just using that term.) I feel like I don't know them well enough to have a chat, but at the same time I want to be friends. I just don't know if they feel the same way, and I don't wanna embarass myself by saying something personal or asking one of them to hang out outside of school. I don't know what to do to take these friendships to the next level, even though I really want to. Does anyone know what I should say to break the ice/ask to be friends?
Also, I don't have snap (strict parents) if that's any help with advice.
Glad you reached out. Maybe ask about their lunches since they asked you to sit with them, it’s a start to a conversation so if they’re eating something then maybe ask what’s your favorite snack? Sandwich? Fruit? Or something like that. It can lead to other conversation. Be yourself, genuine conversations are a way find true friendships. Good luck and if you want to talk about this or anything text or call anytime at 888-222-2228.
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