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I had a situation going on and continuing on one of my other posts that I had mentioned about this situation as I said, I don’t really wanna get into it, but I had talked to one of the people who kind of hurt me in a way I guess you could say that not physically of course but at the end of the conversation we were on a phone call, of course and he called me slow, which it really hurt me because I’m a person who is on the autism spectrum and as a person who’s on the spectrum and cannot recognize things, etc. I’ve also been called slow multiple times from bullies or just like people making jokes trying to be funny, but they don’t realize it hurts so I’ve been really thinking about it a lot which I really shouldn’t. I should ignore what he said but it’s just been like on my mind and it’s been annoying.
It is important to acknowledge the bravery it takes to confront someone who has been bullying you and using derogatory names. No one deserves to feel diminished or belittled. Being on the spectrum does not equate to being less capable.
I encourage you to discuss your experiences with your parents or a guidance counselor. If possible, try to distance yourself from the individual causing you distress.
Additionally, refrain from interacting with this person or anyone else who bullies you. I hope this advice will be beneficial.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It’s completely understandable to be hurt by what someone said, especially when it's something you've dealt with in the past. People often don't realize the impact their words can have, and it’s frustrating when they make jokes without considering the feelings of others.
It's important to acknowledge your feelings and give yourself permission to be upset. You are not alone in this—many people who are on the autism spectrum experience similar situations. It might help to talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling or even write it down to process it better. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect, and it's okay to stand up for yourself if someone crosses a line.
If you feel comfortable, you could also consider sharing your perspective with the person who hurt you. Sometimes, helping others understand how their words affect you can lead to more kindness in the future. Take care of yourself, and remember that your feelings are valid.
This is a safe space to share what's on your mind and to get support from real people.
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