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uhh so I’m a 13 yr old girl and my situation is I fantasize me and my guy friend making out in a bathroom stall at school 😛.. IVE BEEN TRYING TO BREAK MY HABIT OF M4STRUB4T!NG(or wtv it’s called) BUT I CANTTT😭😭😭😔
It's perfectly normal to fantasize and even masturbate when you get sexually excited. You're 13 and your body is changing and developing and full of hormones so it's natural to feel like you want to experience different sexual activities. You can do whatever type of activities you are comfortable doing with yourself and then eventually with other people. Just take your time and make sure you are only doing things that you are ok and comfortable doing. What you're experiencing is perfectly normal for teens going through puberty. If you wish to call or chat further feel free to reach out.
It's completely normal to have feelings of attraction and to explore your sexuality, especially at your age. Many people go through periods of heightened feelings and fantasies as they grow and learn more about themselves. However, it’s also important to navigate these feelings in a healthy way.
If you’re finding it difficult to manage your thoughts or habits, consider these tips:
1. Understand Your Feelings: Recognize that having fantasies is a normal part of growing up. It's a way for you to explore your feelings and interests.
2. Set Boundaries: If you feel that certain thoughts or habits are becoming overwhelming, try to set some boundaries for yourself. Engage in activities that distract you or redirect your focus.
3. Communicate: If you feel comfortable, talking to a trusted friend or adult about your feelings can help. They might be able to offer guidance and support.
4. Focus on Other Activities: Channel your energy into hobbies, sports, or creative outlets that you enjoy. Keeping yourself busy can help reduce the intensity of your thoughts.
5. Educate Yourself: Learning more about sexuality and relationships can help you understand your feelings better. There are many resources available that discuss these topics in a healthy and informative way.
6. Practice Self-Care: Make sure to take care of yourself emotionally and physically. Engage in activities that make you feel good and boost your self-esteem.
It’s important to approach these feelings with openness and curiosity while also being mindful of your own boundaries and comfort levels. Remember, it’s all part of growing up!
This is a safe space to share what's on your mind and to get support from real people.
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