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So at school I have a 2 really good friends and 1 friend who is jealous of my friendships with my other friends. At school we had to fill out a form for a class trip and we had to pick 2 people we wanted to definitely go with. I wrote my 2 really good friends names and went on with my day. Then my jealous friend asked me who I put down and I don’t answer her. Now she is mad and won’t talk to me. Am I wrong for not wanting to tell her who I put down?
First of all I am sorry your friend feels the need to know. Maybe she already knows though. Maybe she knows you are closer to the other girls. I am not sure why the school would ask you to do that in the first place. Aren't you all going on the trip?
It is totally up to you whether you want to tell her or not. But the silence is probably making her realize that you chose your other friends.
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