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I'm not sure if I should come out, my parents doesn't know what is LGBTQ+ which it's a problem... If you want to know how I know that I'm bisexual... let me explain a bit, I felt in love with a boy when I was 8 and I felt in love with a girl when I'm 10. I searched up "bisexual", until I realized I am.. This is my sexuality, I'm proud to finally know who I am! Now, Tell me.. Should I come out to my parents? Tell me why, ask my advice or etc. Thank you! ✌️😊
I am happy that you reached out to 2ndfloor. Sometimes it is difficult to tell your loved ones the truth. Do you think they will be supportive? This is something you need to try to figure out if it's the best choice for you right now. Many people it takes years to come out and it's a personal choice. You should see if your school has a gay/straight alliance, it would be helpful to join.
Also, here are a few resources that might be helpful too. This is a youth talkline for GBLT: www.youthtalkline.org
This website also has a lot of information too: www.outproud.org
You can always reach out to 2ndfloor too. You can reply to this Message Board, use out new app to chat or call or text us at 888-222-2228.
Hello, I know I'm a stranger, but, you can do what make you feel comfortable. I know we don't know each other but I support you, I'm transgender myself.
don’t come out to your parents until you are 100% ready, you don’t owe anyone anything, and it’s okay to never formally label yourself but to have partners of whatever gender. don’t feel pressured to say anything unless you feel ready. sending my love, from someone who is also bi :)
It’s great to hear that you’re feeling proud of your identity and have taken the time to understand your sexuality! Coming out is a personal decision and can feel both exciting and daunting, especially when you’re unsure how your parents might react.
If your parents don’t have much knowledge about LGBTQ+ topics, they might need some time to process what you share with them. Here are a few things to consider that might help you make your decision:
1. Safety and Comfort: Think about how comfortable and safe you feel discussing this with your parents. If you believe they will be supportive, that might encourage you to come out. If you have concerns about how they might react, it’s okay to take your time.
2. Timing: Consider the timing of your conversation. Finding a moment when you can have a calm and open discussion can make a difference in how they receive the information.
3. Education: Since your parents might not know much about LGBTQ+ topics, it might be helpful to be prepared to share resources or information with them. This could help them understand your identity better.
4. Support Network: Make sure you have a support system in place, whether it’s friends, other family members, or LGBTQ+ groups. Having people who understand can be really comforting.
Ultimately, it’s your choice, and you should do what feels right for you. Trust your instincts, and remember that it’s perfectly okay to wait until you feel ready. Whatever you decide, know that your identity is valid, and you deserve to be accepted for who you are!
This is a safe space to share what's on your mind and to get support from real people.
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