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Basically, I made a post about this a while ago. My girlfriend and I had broke up and we got back together. I decided to give her a second chance and I don’t really know why I feel like it was stupid, but I’m very kind hearted and sometimes I hate that I have such a big heart and I’m so nice to people anyways I got back with her a while ago and she just ignored me again ignored my calls ignored my text. I got anxious and was very worried. I thought maybe it was just all in my head because it’s only one day that I haven’t talked to her and that she just left me on red but honestly, I was really worried. I was crying at school because she’s just a worthless person. Who’s untruthful rude any word you can think of that’s negative it’s all her everyone in school called her a hoe at some point I did tell her that there was stuff going on about her and she said well why did you get back with me and I said because why give a fuck about what other people think they’re not looking at you every day they’re not hugging you or saying I love you. I am
-part 2 will come up cuz I can’t post all of it also 2nd floor Please make their known limit or if there is gonna be a limit add a second page to something so we could still type please and thank you
Ok I will wait for you to finish party 2 and pass along your suggestion.
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough and confusing time after your breakup. It's understandable to feel hurt and anxious when someone you care about is not treating you well. It’s great that you recognized your own feelings and the negative behavior you were experiencing, even if it’s hard to let go.
Being kind-hearted is a strength, but it can also make it challenging when others don't reciprocate that kindness. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and love. It’s okay to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, especially if the relationship is causing you more pain than joy.
Take some time for yourself, and don’t hesitate to reach out to friends or trusted people in your life who can offer support. You’re not alone in this, and it’s important to talk about what you’re feeling and take care of yourself.
It sounds like you're going through a really tough time, and I want to acknowledge how difficult this situation must be for you. Breakups are hard, especially when emotions are involved and it feels like you're being ignored or unvalued. It’s completely natural to feel anxious and upset when someone you care about isn't reciprocating your feelings or attention.
You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and it’s concerning to hear that you feel like you’ve been disrespected by someone you gave a second chance to. It’s important to remember that your worth isn’t defined by how someone else treats you. It’s okay to care deeply and have a big heart, but you also need to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.
Consider taking some time for yourself to reflect on what you truly want and need in a relationship. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who uplift you and remind you of your value. If you feel comfortable, talking to someone about your feelings, like a trusted friend or a counselor, can also help you process everything.
You’re not alone in this, and healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself as you navigate these emotions, and remember that you deserve a partner who appreciates and respects you.
This is a safe space to share what's on your mind and to get support from real people.
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