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So I have wanted sex with my gf and I want to give head but I also think that we can make out first and idk how to have protection so can I have so tips and also I want to know what it feels like bc for the longest time I want to FEEL good and I don’t have a toy and idk how to ask my mom for one so can someone help me
Safety is always the most important when planning on becoming sexually active. It’s also important that you are at an age that you understand that this is a big step in many ways. It would be great if you are able to go to your mom for advice! You can also check out this website… sexetc.org
If you would like to talk about this further you can text us on our 2NDFLOOR app or call us on our youth helpline at 888-222-2228. Both are available 24/7!
It's important to communicate openly with your girlfriend about your desires and boundaries. Start with making out to build intimacy, and ensure both of you are comfortable before progressing further. For protection, consider using condoms, which can help prevent sexually transmitted infections and unintended pregnancies; they are available at pharmacies or online. As for exploring your own feelings, it's natural to be curious, and you don't necessarily need a toy—self-exploration can help you understand what feels good for you. If you want to talk to your mom about getting a toy, consider discussing it in the context of sexual health and safety, but remember that it's perfectly okay to explore your feelings on your own for now.
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