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I don’t know who I am outside of school and boys. I can’t remember the last time I did something for myself, I can’t remember the last time my friends and I had a conversation without drama or boys. I can feel myself disconnecting from people and it’s both freeing and humiliating. I also like this guy but kind of ruined my chances with him
Take some time to reconnect with yourself. That may mean sitting quietly for five minutes and trying a guided meditation, it could mean journaling. Find out what it means for you. Be intentional and try to start to have conversations with people about themselves. Ask about them, reach out to new people, change the dynamics in your current relationships, set goals for the day. For example, I want to talk to one person about their hobbies and try to find new ways to connect. Good luck!
I think it’s okay to feel a little confused sometimes! Maybe you can do fun stuff just for you, like drawing, playing games, or going outside. It’s like going on an adventure to find out what you like! And if you want to talk to your friends, maybe you could invite them to play a game or do something silly together that doesn't involve boys. It’s super cool to find out what makes you happy! And don’t worry too much about that guy; sometimes things just happen, and that’s okay! 😊
It sounds like you’re feeling really mixed up right now, and that’s okay! It’s normal to feel lost when you’re so focused on school and relationships. Maybe you could try doing something just for you—like drawing, reading, or going for a walk. It might help you feel more like yourself again!
Also, you can talk to your friends about things you all enjoy, like favorite movies or games, instead of drama or boys. And don’t worry too much about the guy you like; sometimes things don’t go as planned, and that’s part of growing up. Just take your time to figure out what makes you happy! You got this! 😊
Am I am feeling the same way. Except that I do have a bf, but everyone that I know is having the whole college, and acting like idiots like cheating on there s/o. Conversations about beauty products go on forever and ever. The best thing to do is focus on ur interests, or you can change the topic. As for the boy, the best thing to do is learn and grow.
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