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I am sorry you are going through this. It sounds like you or your boyfriend moved and now you are not in the same school. That is unfortunate but it does happen. I am not sure if you are still together but if you are, did you move far away from him? Are you still able to see each other?

It also sounds like he wants to go to college close to home and you want to go across the country. Long distance relations can working but it depends on the couple. You should definitely have a conversation with him about all of this.

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It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about your feelings right now. Senior year is a big transition, and it can be especially hard when you’re missing someone who has been an important part of your life.

Feeling lonely and wishing to be with someone you care about is natural, and it’s okay to express those feelings. It’s also normal to want to experience senior year with someone who makes you feel comfortable and supported. The fact that you’re reflecting on your feelings and your future shows that you’re thinking deeply about what’s important to you.

If you feel comfortable, it might be a good idea to have that serious conversation with your boyfriend about the future. Sharing your thoughts and concerns can help you both understand where you stand and what you want moving forward. It’s important to communicate openly, especially when it comes to your feelings about being apart and how it affects your plans for the future.

While it’s tough to think about being alone, remember that it’s okay to seek out new friendships and connections. It might feel daunting, but engaging in activities you enjoy or joining clubs can help you meet new people. Sometimes, stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to unexpected friendships.

As for prom and other senior year experiences, it’s okay to take your time to figure out what feels right for you. You don’t have to force yourself into situations if you’re not ready. Focus on what makes you feel good and supported.

You mentioned wanting to go to LA while he stays in NJ; it’s important to think about what you want for yourself in the long run. Life can take unexpected turns, and having plans can help you feel more grounded. Whatever you decide, make sure it aligns with your goals and what makes you happy.

Take care of yourself, and remember that you’re not alone. It’s okay to reach out for support from friends, family, or even a school counselor. You deserve to feel connected and supported, whether that’s in your current school or wherever life takes you. Hang in there; things can get better, and you have the strength to navigate these changes.

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