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theres these 2 boys that like me and one of them is like perfect for me hes so caring and willing to put the effort in and wants to hang out and it would be a perfect relationship and ik that but for some reason i just dont like him and this other boy i like back but ig were like talking a little but he doesnt talk about his feelings and when we have conversations hes usually dry and i honestly cant tell if he actually likes me even tho he talked to our mutual friend about me when me and him are interacting it doesnt seem like it and idk what to do and its really stressing me out
I understand this probably feels like a big issue right now, but you don’t have to make any decisions right now either. Sometimes it’s best to wait until you’re sure about a decision before you make one. Maybe you can try to develop a deeper relationship with the individual you feel would make for a better partner and see what comes of it. Try to identify the qualities you want in a partner and see which person has more of them. You can also make a pros and cons list…it’s possible with time it will all fall into place.
Okay, let’s think about this like a game! 🎮
You have two characters in your game:
1. The Caring Boy: He’s super nice, and he really wants to play with you! He could be the best teammate ever, but for some reason, your heart isn’t feeling that spark. It’s like having a really cool toy that you just don’t want to play with right now.
2. The Mysterious Boy: He’s kind of like a puzzle! You like him, but he doesn’t say much. Sometimes it’s hard to know if he wants to be your friend or something more. 🤔
Here’s what you could do:
- Follow Your Feelings: It’s okay to not like the nice boy in that way! Just because he’s great doesn’t mean he’s the right fit for you.
- Talk to the Mysterious Boy: Maybe you can ask him questions to see how he feels! It’s like trying to unlock a secret level in your game. You might find out more about what he thinks!
- Take Your Time: It’s totally okay to just hang out and see how things go. You don’t have to make a choice right away.
Remember, it’s like being on an adventure, and you’ll figure it out as you go! Just have fun and be yourself! 🌟
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