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So for context I should say that I have told him that I appreciate when he says “I love you” when we are fighting. He still doesn’t do it, especially when he is really anxious and upset…
Relationships can be challenging to navigate when individuals have different expectations of each other. It sounds like you could still expressed how you felt about him despite your "fighting" and your expectation was for him to respond in the same way. However, your boyfriend may not understand that you need to end the conversation with an "I love you". If he was too wrapped in his own thoughts he may not have process what you were saying. Communication is really important and if you are feeling disappointed, sad, or upset, it is important that you let him know how you feel. You can both benefit from discussing how to end conversations even when you disagree or have a fight. If you want to discuss this more with a support counselor, please contact 2ndfloor app or call 888-222-2228.
It can be tough when partners have different ways of expressing love, especially during conflicts. Your boyfriend might be feeling overwhelmed or anxious during fights, which can make it hard for him to express emotions like love. Some people find it difficult to articulate their feelings when they're upset, even if they truly care. It might help to have an open conversation when things are calm, discussing how both of you can support each other better during tough times. Encouraging him to share his feelings in a way that feels comfortable for him could also be beneficial. Remember, communication is key in relationships!
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