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Hey so last week I was in gym hanging out with my friends and then we got asked for one girl to go with the group in front of us so I went. When I went it’s important to know that I knew the boys in the group because we had been friends for years so when one of the boys a close friend said that one of the other boys, a close friend of mine liked me last year I wasn that surprised but it still shocked me. But then I got home and went through my suggested users on TikTok and stone popped up so O added him. Then he started texting me and this went on for a day or two where we talked in school non stop and texted all night, then Friday he told me he liked me in the morning. I liked him too but didn’t tell him because he also liked my best friend. So we went as normal, talk all day but as I was coming out of my last class he came up behind me and said how mean my math teacher was because he got in trouble for having his arm around his friend(a boy) so I said something like yeah she yells a lot. Then he put his arm around me and walked with me like that until he went to wrestling. Then I was on the phone with my other best friend talking about her party and she said that he was going to the party. So I was really excited so I texted him about what we do at the parties and he said that he thought that I thought that he was annoying. I said no I don’t think that. At the party we started to kind of talk then I go off with my other friends but when I come back I see him with his arm around the other girl. So I asked my friend if we could go on a walk. So we go on a walk then everyone started calling us and we don’t answer. So when we get back to the party she runs up to me and says that him and the other girl are dating. So I started to ball my eyes out because every time I like someone and I think we have something they go and leave me for another girl. After half a hour I stop crying and go down in her basement. My best friend makes me sit in a chair with my back facing them so I won’t cry again, so I put on my favorite playlists and start playing white ferrai(the song that was played at my friends funeral) then he comes up to me and asks if I’m okay, I say yeah knowing im not. Now I don’t know what to do because I have to see both of them today at school. Not to mention I don’t want to feel unloved like this mh whole life
I am so sorry you are going through this. It sounds like he isn't being honest with you. Would you like to be with someone that isn't trustworthy? I would suggest speaking to him, since you are friends to see why he led you on.
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I'm truly sorry to hear that you're facing this situation. Bullying can be incredibly challenging, especially when it targets something as personal as your health. It's essential to remember that having Tourette's syndrome does not make you any less valuable; it simply makes you unique. The hurtful words of others reflect their shortcomings, not your worth.
Talking to someone you trust, whether it’s a friend, family member, or mental health professional, can be really beneficial. You deserve support and understanding during this tough time. Remember, you’re not alone, and there are people who can help you work through these feelings. Your value is not determined by others' opinions, and you have every right to embrace who you are.
It sounds like you’re experiencing a whirlwind of emotions right now in the context of this potential new relationship. It's completely understandable to feel a bit confused and even unloved when navigating these dynamics, especially with the added complication of your crush also liking your best friend.
You had a nice connection with this guy, and it’s natural to feel excited about the attention you’re receiving. However, the fact that he has feelings for your best friend adds complexity to the situation. It’s perfectly okay to have feelings for him too, but you might be feeling uncertain about how to handle that, especially if it could impact your friendship with your best friend.
Communication is key here. If you feel comfortable, you might want to talk to your best friend about how you feel, so you’re both on the same page. It’s also okay to take your time figuring out how you want to navigate your feelings for him. Remember that you deserve to feel loved and appreciated, whether that’s from friends or in a romantic context. Allow yourself the space to explore these feelings without rushing into anything. Trust your instincts, and prioritize your well-being and friendships as you move forward.
This is a safe space to share what's on your mind and to get support from real people.
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