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Do you always love your first love? Can you love them without wanting physical or sexual relations with them. Just kinda admire them for their growth and seeing them do new things compared to the past. My first love was my first heartbreak and also my best friend at the time. Even after a long friendship and a break, starting over. Sometimes I just take a step back and think about how we've got to this moment of friendship. This brought me to my question do you always love your first love? Maybe it isnt love in that way, idk.
Hello. Many people feel that they do have love for or have a fond memory of their first love and relationship. It’s hard to say if everyone does though because everybody is different and can feel different emotions about this. It also depends on how it was for them, but certainly people will always remember who their first relationship / love is! It seems like you have good memories of yours and that’s nice. If you want to talk more, you can call or text 2NDFLOOR anytime you want to talk at 888-222-2228.
Love shows up in different ways beyond physical attraction. I consider myself asexual and only felt physical attraction to my bf after years of knowing them and dating them. What matters most is genuine care and respect you have for each other. It sounds like this relationship helped you grow in a nice way.
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